LIVE 10.29.2026
This week Sonia and Jess are closing out The Babies We Carry With Us by returning to one of the first stories that shaped this community: Courtney’s experience losing her babies, Whalen and Piper. Courtney’s story reminds us that a baby’s life does not have to be long to be deeply meaningful; and that grief does not follow the rest of the world’s timeline. We revisit her words about searching for the “why,” and the love and individual personalities that remain so present in the way she speaks about her children. To Courtney, Jenn, Katie, and every mother and family who trusted us with their stories: thank you. And to every family carrying the memory of a baby they wish they could hold again, we see you. Their lives matter, their names matter, and they will always be part of the families who love them. And because emotional stability has never been their brand, the mamas make a hard left directly into spooky season. Sonia is celebrating her birthday by turning 34 again, blaming the iPhone for crimes against her face, crying over spaghetti, and throwing a bag out the door in what can only be described as a thoughtful act of luteal time management. Jess is crying over the toys she was considering throwing away five seconds earlier, surviving on Cheez-Its and Diet Coke, and preparing for Hayden to execute a full costume change halfway through trick-or-treating. Then they finally investigate the question they’ve been threatening to ask for years: Have women actually killed someone during their luteal phase? They look at the cases of Sandie Craddock, Christine English, and Kumari Chandra, three women whose premenstrual symptoms became part of arguments about diminished responsibility, mental illness, or criminal intent. To be abundantly clear: PMS and PMDD are real, serious conditions, and the mamas aren’t actually suggesting that being luteal turns women into murderers. Content note: This episode includes conversations about pregnancy and infant loss, child loss, homicide, mental health, and premenstrual disorders.
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